Hello my lovelies ever wondered if you have a Cheating boyfriend?? I have started a new Sex and Relationships page on my blog. This page i will mostly use my personal opinions and experiences about Relationships and Sex!! I am not an expert in this field, so read, enjoy and hopefully you learn a thing or two. Please only read if you have a great sense of Humour.

Today’s topic is a very interesting one my first topic will be on Cheating, and i have chosen to use Nigerian men as an example as i do not have much experience with other Countries.


  • When you go through his phone and he’s ended all his chat, if the only chats that are open are the ones from his parents then my dear he has a side chick.
  • When he uses you as his display picture across all his social media platforms then he’s cheating on you why else is he showing you off like that??
  • When he sends you a good ”morning babe” text even before you wake up.. Then someone is teaching him new tricks.
  • When he’s sex game greatly improves overnight then my friend he is learning on somebody else.
  • When he randomly buys you gift, best believe he is apologizing for something he has done, about to do or something he will do.
  • When you make him food and he finishes it, then he’s side chick is not cooking for him.
  • When you make him food and he doesn’t finish it then he’s side chick cooks better than you ask him then and there to confess.
  • If its been a whole week and you have nothing to argue about, he is definitely cheating because he is fighting with his side chick.
  • When you tell your Nigerian Boyfriend that you have had a bad day and he hugs you passionately, His side chic must be teaching him new tricks.
  • When you notice your boyfriend starts to chew his food with his mouth closed, OMG he’s been on several dates with plenty other woman.
  • You go a date with your Nigerian boyfriend, and starts to use fork and Knife to eat his meals, then you know his side chic been teaching new tricks.
  • When he introduces you to his new friends as his wife so they don’t confuse you with his side chic, then please ask him to confess.
  • When your Nigerian boyfriend tells you that you are the only woman in his life then he is cheating on you.


I hope you have enjoyed reading this, as much as i have enjoyed writing this. If you have more signs please share as it will be interesting to read others opinions.

Wife Catches Husband Having Se ex With Another Lady. (What she did will shock you)

Okitipupa (Ondo State) – A housewife, Taye Akinbolade, 28, has been charged before an Okitipupa Magistrates’ Court in Ondo State for allegedly slashing the breast of her husband’s lover.

Akinbolade committed the offence after allegedly catching her husband having sex with his lover on their matrimonial bed.
Akinbolade, a trader, residing at No. 5, Beke St., Ikoya in Okitipupa, is standing trial on a charge of assault. She has, however, pleaded not guilty to the charge.

The Prosecutor, Insp. Zedekiah Orogbemi, told court that the accused on Nov. 25 at about 8:30 p.m. at No. 5 Beke St., Ikoya, Okitipupa, met a woman, Imisi Michael, having sex on the matrimonial bed of the accused.

Orogbemi said that the accused, who had been trailing Michael before that day, beat her to pulp before using a new razor blade to slash her breast, face and head.

He said that the husband of the accused, one Tunde Akinbolade, who initially ran away when the fight ensued between the two women, later rushed Michael to hospital.
The prosecutor said the offence contravened Section 338 of the Criminal Code Cap.37, Vol.1, Laws of Ondo State, 2006.

The Magistrate, Mr Banji Ayeomoni, granted the accused bail in the sum of N500,000 with one surety in like sum, saying that the surety must also produce evidence of two years tax clearance. Ayeomoni, who described the accused as wicked accused her of taking laws into her hands. She adjourned the case till Dec. 13 for further hearing.

Vice Principal Who Allegedly Impregnated Student

The Vice-Principal of Day Secondary School, Tunga Minna, Mohammed Mohammed, who had earlier been remanded in prison after he admitted that he penetrated a 16-year-old student, but did not release sperm and could not be responsible for the pregnancy.

He has been denied bail.
The accused, however, was remanded in prison till April 5, when the case was revisited in former Magistrate’s Court 8 in Minna.On the adjourned date, the counsel to the accused, Mohammed Mustapha, pleaded for an oral application, saying the suspect did not sleep with the pupil. He said;

“In view of this, we humbly make an oral application for his bail before the court under the inheritance and rights jurisdiction of the court,”

He said the oral application for bail was premised on sections 34, 35 and 36 of the 1999 Constitution as amended, while urging the court to use its discretion to admit the suspect to bail.

Police prosecutor, Corporal Hussaini Paiko, objected to the bail application, saying the ongoing police investigations on the matter could be altered.

In her ruling, Senior Magistrate Fati Auna, refused to grant bail to the suspect, ordering the counsel to formally submit the bail application in writing.

Auna ordered the suspect be remanded in prison custody after adjourning till April 26 for further hearing.

Lecturer Caught and Exposed-Sex for good grade.

Judith Okosun, the 400-level Mechanical Engineering student at the centre of the July 2010 sex-for-grades scandal at the Ambrose Alli University in Ekpoma, Edo State, has been suspended for six semesters.

In a report, THE NEWS said that Engr. Peter Otubu, the lecturer whose demand of sexual favors in exchange for good grades led to the crisis, was fired by the University, this was confirmed by the university authorities today.


The university, which Ms. Okosun’s lawyer claimed to have been informed of the incident from the beginning, although its spokesman denied it, set up two committees.  The student was found guilty of “breaching her matriculation oath”.

This means that Ms. Okosun a victim of Dr. Otubu’s wayward ways will not be able to complete her studies at the university several years later than before Mr. Otubu’s intervention.  Also, the university offers no guarantee that another randy lecturer will not be waiting with a new grading “system”, or to exact vengeance.

Dr. Otubu’s case was instructive according to the university vice chancellor who rendered an account of his past to the NEWS magazine, as stated here: “Professor Sam Uniamikogbo, the university’s Vice-Chancellor, explained why Judith was also sanctioned. “The student was aware of the university’s rules and regulations and once any student violates any of the rules, that student will be disciplined,’’ he told TheNEWS.  The rules, said the Vice-Chancellor, forbid students from taking laws into their own hands, as Judith seemed to have done. Uniamikogbo is, however, still shocked by the conduct of Otubu. Prior to the scandal, the V-C said, Otubu was considered chaste; having helped the university authorities bust a lecturer who habitually demanded sex from married undergraduates. ‘‘It was Otubu that we put on the case. The married woman was told to play along. Otubu helped us to arrest the lecturer at the hotel to which he had invited the woman. I could never have imagined that a man we thought was clean and a veritable role model would be involved in this kind of scandal,” Uniamikogbo said ruefully.

The university terminated Dr. Otubu’s appointment